Tired of Trying?

There have been some people that have told me that they feel as if though their boyfriend or girlfriend have been giving up on the relationship. If you feel like that, keep reading.

Ever heard the phrase "If you love something let it go, if it comes back it was meant to be" ? Well I really love that one because it's true. If you love someone and they aren't happy, let them go. Yeah its hard, but if you truly care for their happiness then you would do it. If they come back, it was meant to be that's just how it goes. There are some relationships that when one person thinks the other is giving up, they stop too. Well let me be the first to say, if you are the one giving up.. just quit already. Why? Well because, you're just giving that person false hope that the relationship will work out. Most of the time, people go out with someone because they feel bad for them or they just want to date someone new. Is it really worth it? Is it worth leading someone on? Is it worth it to date someone because you feel like changing your relationship status? What if someone did it to you? Yeah, I thought so. It's different when someone does it to you, right? So, if you're doing it to someone or know someone that is doing it; think about it. Put yourself in their shoes and just think, if someone was doing that to you... how would you feel? It would not only suck, it would hurt.

So, a reminder to those that want to give up or quit trying. Don't do it because you have to, or because you feel like the other person is because I gaurantee you if you put your best effort that person will notice. You could always sit down and talk to them about your feelings too. Be honest and keep it real in a relationship.