Bullying

The definition of bullying; The use of superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone), typically to force him or her to do what one wants.

That my dear readers and friends is the true definition of bullying. So, my question is to all those fellow bullies out there; why? Why do you do it? Do you do it to make yourself feel better? Do you do it to feel like your above everyone? Well, newsflash, you're not. You're not better than anyone else. You're a human being just like everyone, you have flaws and you make mistakes. Just like everyone else. For those who have been or are currently being bullied, stay strong and remember you are beautiful; you shouldn't care what people say. God created you the way you are for a reason. It doesn't matter if you are chubby, skinny, light-skinned, dark-skinned, tall or short. It shouldn't matter what race or religion you are either. You are beautiful inside and out, whoever tells you otherwise is jealous or they have to put people down to feel strong. Don't let them get to you. 

People that are bullied usually turn suicidal or depressed. That is NOT under any circumstances, okay. If you are one of those people being bullied, tell an adult immediately. Don't think you are being a snitch or that you can handle that on your own, because even though it may seem like it; you will lose control of the situation. Stop it while you can. I have my own experience with bullying and I know many people that have been through it too. It sucks and lets not forget it scars someone, badly. It follows and haunts someone for a long time.. If you have a chance to make a change, why not take it? 


If you feel like you need somebody to talk to, im here. I understand the pain and what it is like to deal with it, please email me at anytime: shakiraverdecia@gmail.com or tweet me: @_xoxoshakiraa.

If you think you may be dealing with suicidal thoughts and or thinking of committing suicide please call National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (U.S).
Follow: @StopBullyingGov .

Remember to stay strong and never keep quiet if it is a serious situation. Get help.

Tired of Trying?

There have been some people that have told me that they feel as if though their boyfriend or girlfriend have been giving up on the relationship. If you feel like that, keep reading.

Ever heard the phrase "If you love something let it go, if it comes back it was meant to be" ? Well I really love that one because it's true. If you love someone and they aren't happy, let them go. Yeah its hard, but if you truly care for their happiness then you would do it. If they come back, it was meant to be that's just how it goes. There are some relationships that when one person thinks the other is giving up, they stop too. Well let me be the first to say, if you are the one giving up.. just quit already. Why? Well because, you're just giving that person false hope that the relationship will work out. Most of the time, people go out with someone because they feel bad for them or they just want to date someone new. Is it really worth it? Is it worth leading someone on? Is it worth it to date someone because you feel like changing your relationship status? What if someone did it to you? Yeah, I thought so. It's different when someone does it to you, right? So, if you're doing it to someone or know someone that is doing it; think about it. Put yourself in their shoes and just think, if someone was doing that to you... how would you feel? It would not only suck, it would hurt.

So, a reminder to those that want to give up or quit trying. Don't do it because you have to, or because you feel like the other person is because I gaurantee you if you put your best effort that person will notice. You could always sit down and talk to them about your feelings too. Be honest and keep it real in a relationship.